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‘I Forgot Who I Am’ – Here Is Your Solution

You lost yourself along the way? HAH! That’s totally fine. I mean, nothing in nature blossoms all year long.

We all get lost once in a while, really, life has ups and downs.

However, the bad may seem longer than the better, isn’t it? You feel like there is no escape from your life that you dislike, you feel controlled by toxic people… you feel dead. It’s pretty normal and I feel your pain, once in a while I feel like I’m living in the darkness, I feel like my life is incomplete and I just can’t even remember what makes me feel happy. It’s like I’m an empty shell.


Now don’t get me wrong, the last thing you would do when you feel this way is to search for “how to get better” blog posts. However, YOU NEED IT. You need an opinion from the outside because this is what you are missing off right now. I’ve been there and even if it doesn’t seem like it, you are really not thinking outside the box when in that state.

Here is how to claim yourself back by the next weekend:

 – Do something you enjoy

I know you feel like nothing is enjoyable however just do something different that sounds exciting. Go to a new restaurant, coffee shop, meet new people. It really works, trust me. 

  – Believe in yourself

If you don’t believe in yourself who do you expect to do it? The state you feel trapped in right now is not a dead end. Imagine your life like a flat street, walking is progressing in life and the state you find yourself in right now is you sitting on your butt thinking about how much long you still have to walk. Get up and start walking again. You will enjoy it again as well.


– Bye Felicia

Say buh-bye to toxic and fake people that are around you. You know the ‘friend’ that keeps calling you when they need help? Yeah. Say bye to them. You know those people that always makes you feel like crap whenever you meet with them? Yup. Those too. However, I know that sometimes ‘feeling like crap’ helps you progress as you will try to improve yourself but I’m not talking about that kind of ‘feeling like crap’, I’m talking about those people that make you feel depressed about everything in your life and they just can’t stop talking about their life without even asking them about it.

It’s that easy. You did not lose yourself, ‘yourself’ is probably taking a nap. Wake it up and there you go, you just found ‘yourself’. Now go out and enjoy life again.


Take care,


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15 comments on “‘I Forgot Who I Am’ – Here Is Your Solution

  1. These kind of blog posts are so refreshing to read amongst a sea of ‘buy this!’ and ‘go here!’. I think the ‘lost yourself’ feeling is very difficult to pinpoint sometimes, so it’s helpful to have guidance. Bye Felicia often is the best way!
    lily x


  2. Love this inspiring post! It’s true the worse thing we can do is just simply give up. But we’re worth the effort.


  3. So I absolutely love the shirt you have on as well as those lights on the trees!
    Ivelisse |


  4. Extremely good points! I’m a bit lost at the moment and need to find out which direction to go. I feel it’s important to believe in yourself and do enjoyable things – not always easy but that’s the way to live this life.


  5. Yes these people are toxic. But they need a friend who can tell them the honest truth and some times that helps…


  6. I honestly think that we all “lose’ ourselves at one point along the journey of life, it’s a part of our lives that help us truly understand who we are and what we want from life. Sometimes you have to go down to get back up.

    La Belle Sirene 


  7. I don’t think I have ever lost my direction, perhaps just shifted lanes. Sometimes you have to do that in life.


  8. Great idea, doing something new is always a good way to joosh up your life when you need a boost.


  9. My Urban Family

    Great tips. I especially like “Say buh-bye to toxic and fake people that are around you.” This helps so much!


  10. Very powerful post! My “self” has been taking a nap & I’ve been sleepwalking for a while. I’m ready to wake up now. Your tips will be very helpful!


  11. great post, the hardest is getting rid of people who have a negative impact on your life especially if they are close or relatives, but you have to in order to become yourself.


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